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prettyburd

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my father is in prison for life for beating my mom and almost killing a police officer. i have no memories of him since he went away when i was just born, he wasn't even there for my delivery. i feel like something is missing from me even though i didn't know him that much. any advice on how to overcome this? i don't want to feel like it's my fault anymore. i love my dad i mean come on he's my flesh and blood but how do i erase him from my bad feelings?? ADVICE PLEASE!!
 

MITM18

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I am no pychologist and it would be wrong to give you advise since I am not experienced in that field, if you really want help I'd suggest going to a pychologist.

Have you ever asked your close friends or your mom?
 

prettyburd

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i really want your advice doctor or no doctor. this isn't really tearing me apart and i cant eat or sleep because of it, its just it gets on my nerves. my mom doesn't like to talk about him and once i asked if i could visit him, to find out more so i won't have unanswered questions but she said never. i hate doctors plus so ill never go to one for help give me ur advice please ill take it...:rolleyes:
 

MITM18

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Well I know what not to do when you have pain like that for example no drugs, alcohol, etc.

While nothing can cure as you want a father figure, maybe if you write your feelings on paper you can better understand what your really "lacking" instead of jumbled thoughts in your mind.
 
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